baby colic — what it is and what helps
this is general information, not medical advice. if your baby is unwell or you are concerned, see your GP.
what is colic?
colic is defined by the "rule of three" — crying for 3+ hours a day, 3+ days a week, for 3+ weeks. it's one of the hardest things about early parenthood.
• usually starts around 2-3 weeks of age
• peaks at about 6 weeks
• resolves by 3-4 months for most babies
• affects about 1 in 5 babies
colic is NOT caused by bad parenting. you are not doing anything wrong.
colic vs reflux
colic
- • excessive crying, especially in the evening
- • draws knees up to chest
- • clenched fists
- • usually 2 weeks to 4 months
- • no specific cause found
reflux (GOR)
- • spitting up after feeds
- • arching back during or after feeds
- • unsettled during feeds
- • may or may not cry excessively
- • can persist beyond 4 months
note: colic and reflux can overlap. see your GP to rule out reflux or other causes if your baby is very unsettled.
what helps
there's no single cure for colic, but these strategies can help soothe your baby. try different combinations — what works changes day to day.
movement
- • rocking (arms, chair, hammock)
- • walking with baby
- • pram ride
- • car ride
- • baby swing
sound
- • white noise machine or app
- • vacuum cleaner sound
- • shushing (loud and rhythmic)
touch
- • skin to skin contact
- • gentle tummy massage (clockwise circles)
- • warm bath
feeding
- • check latch if breastfeeding
- • pace bottle feeding
- • burp well during and after feeds
- • try a different bottle if bottle feeding
carrying
- • upright position against your chest
- • baby carrier or wrap
environment
- • dim the lights
- • reduce stimulation in the evenings
what doesn't help (and may harm)
when to see a doctor
see your GP if your baby has:
- • a fever
- • vomiting (not just posseting/spitting up)
- • blood in their poo
- • not gaining weight
trust your instincts. if you feel something is wrong, see your doctor. you know your baby best.
looking after yourself
colic is exhausting. the crying is relentless and it can make you feel helpless, frustrated, and overwhelmed. that is completely normal.
if you need a break, put your baby down safely in their cot and step away for a few minutes. a crying baby in a safe space is okay. you are not failing.
ask your partner, family, or friends for help. even 30 minutes of relief makes a difference.
it WILL end. colic is temporary, even though it doesn't feel like it right now.
if you're struggling, call:
Tresillian — 1300 272 736 (24/7 parenting support)
PANDA — 1300 726 306 (perinatal anxiety & depression)
related guides
this guide is for informational purposes only and is not medical advice. if you are concerned about your baby, see your GP, call 13 HEALTH (13 43 25 84), or in an emergency call 000.